Dame Com Wand Vibrator Sex Toy Review

About the Com

You're not on just any sex toy review site! You're in my personal toybox of toys I love, trust and have vetted - the vast majority of which were purchased by myself or my partner. 

My scoring system is SUPER personal to my needs and preferences as a low-executive function girly with ADHD. This means I'm not typically interested in measuring toys or decibel levels, ask questions in the comments!

Oh and when you buy through my links, I may earn a commission. All opinions expressed here are my own, and this particular toy was purchased by myself.

Scoring

An ergonic quiet rumbly wand with 5 intensities.

Full disclosure that at the time of writing this review, I no longer have the toy. It was nearby during playtime when my dom's dog stole it and bit it up. The dog was safe but the toy wasn't, I never reached out to Dame about this because it wasn't their fault but I have chosen not to repurchase it on my own because for the price there are better suited wands out there for me.

ADHD-Proof* Score: 90/100

Waterproof and silicone, easy to clean! This toy does also come with a storage bag to keep it stored away between uses which is nice.

*By ADHD-Proof, I basically mean "me"-proof. Or how suitable this is for my lifestyle and brain as a kinky human with ADHD (this is my personal toybox after-all). When I buy toys I'm looking for low-maintenance materials, easy to clean design, limited components to keep track of, stuff like that. That's what this score is referring to. 

Stimulation Score: 60/100

OKAY, so the shape really does make this thing easier to angle and use with a partner and reach spots and everything they say it does.

HOWEVER, where this thing lacks for me is in the vibration department. This is marketed as a very quiet wand, which it really is compared to other wands. However, quieter always comes at a price and in this case my cheaper wand (the Femme Funn Ultra Wand) totally smoked it in the intensity department.

If you do have concerns about playing quietly or need this angling though, this could absolutely be a dream toy for someone. Or if you prefer rumbly slower vibes!. Get it here

Technical Specs

As most smooth silicone toys, a little lube goes a long way.

As with most wands, you'll need alot more charging time for every minute in use. So sometimes I keep a backup vibe on hand during play with this.