Master Kinky Dating to Find your Match Made in... the Dungeon? 

Confidently connect with aligned kinksters, even if dating hasn't worked out for you so far!

Leave behind the confusion and disappointment of vanilla dating

If this section feels like a callout, just know I only get because I've been there too 不

Imagine spending countless hours swiping through vanilla dating apps hoping to maybe just maybe find a compatible dating partner, who also has the same life goals as you, values AND ontop of that is just as kinky as you are 鳶? (I'm guessing you actually don't have to imagine it)

When SHOCKINGLY that hasn't worked out and you're tired of getting 3 dates in with a person to realise this is going to be the most boring sexual experience of your life, you decide to completely swing the other way. You get on that trendy kinky dating app that crashes every other message. Not like that actually matters because most of the messages are from closeted kinksters who don't actually want a real relationship outside of late-night meetups anyways.

Between the rejection and kink-shaming you're SO fucking over it and find yourself wondering if what you're wanting is even possible. Damnit, at this point you're so lonely that Tinder match from 3 months ago with a fistfull of red flags and no personality is looking pretty damn good. (don't do it.)

The truth is there's no silver bullet, super exclusive dating app, or one-liner that will have a marriage-material sheet freak magically knocking at your door. BUT I can tell you what I did to find my amazing Dom (and boyfriend). 

enter the 

Kinky Dating Kickoff

This online course designed specifically for kinksters (by a kinkster) will teach you to set powerful intentions that magnetize your match, create aligned boundaries, and get in the right rooms. Perfect for the kinkster who is SO ready to meet their match (but is also so used to vanilla dating they dont even know where to start).

Heres What Youll Get

Immediately after purchase, you'll have access to all the modules and bonus content to start consuming right away. Go at your pace, reflection prompts and exercises will create natural action points for you to implement the content into your own kinky dating life to start seeing better results. 

On-Demand Kink Mentorship

Instant, lifetime access to practical and motivating video, text, and audio lessons from your Kinky Bestie to start the transformation ASAP!

Guided Resources

Reflection prompts, affirmations, and graphics to support your learning and absorption. 

Mobile and Tablet Friendly

Access the content right here on the site, on any device with a web browser!

What's inside the course

Here are the topics and flow to expect

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Module 1: Setting Intentions

What do you really want? I'll show you how to figure it out, and turn the vision in your head into a clear AF desire. Exactly how much 塚 spice are we talking, what will the rest of the relationship look like? We're getting clear to call it in - because you can only ever get what you ask for bestie!

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Module 2: Boundaries, Bestie!

So you know what you want now... but it isn't gonna happen by accident, right? I'll show you how to make boundaries that call IN your kinky match, so you can drop "defense" mode and truly start to receive. Oh and I give you scripts, formulas and guidance to easily enforce your lovely boundaries when you need to.

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Module 3: Being Seen and Found

Now that YOU know what you want and what boundaries you'll need - all that's left is to get visible so that the right kinksters can start flocking in. This is also where we talk about dating apps VS meeting kinksters "in the wild", and what you'll need to do BOTH!

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Module 4: Messages and First Meets

Woohoo! You found some kinky peeps! Learn how to take the conversation offline and get yourself on some IRL dates, conversation going, and how to flow from date-mate to commitment (if that's what you want!)


Bonus

Cuz you're spoiled

While all you really need to know is within the thoughtfully concise modules, as an ADHDer almost all my thoughts come with BONUS THOUGHTS (notice all the parenthesis on this page so far?) I call these inspirational downloads "bonuses", and you get to have all of them that relate to this course - DUH! And as part of having lifetime access to the course, the bonus section for this course is only growing. 


Bonus 1
Lifetime Updates

Once you're in, you're in. Any updates or bonus content I add over time is YOURS as part of your initial purchase! This is actually the coolest benefit of them all (in my opinion) when you have a mentor with ADHD who get sporadic late-night urges to talk about dating and need somewhere productive to channel it... Yes, that happens to me alot

Bonus 2
Tea on the Best Dating Apps for Kinksters

In this audio bonus, learn my REAL answer to one of the most commonly asked kinky dating questions of all time. Where I met my Dom, what to look for, and how to find the best one for YOU!

Bonus 3
Affirmation Screensavers

I fucking love a good affirmation. But sometimes they disappear into the ethos, right? As a bonus for this course, I've made for you downloadable phone and computer wallpapers with kinky dating affirmations. Just set em up and let them feel normal 

About your Mentor,
Emma (AKA your Kinky Bestie)

As a kinkster, Emma has been in the lifestyle for over 5 years and in a committed partnership with her Dominant for 2 years. She is also a kink mentor within the community. 


Raised in a conservative catholic household (with ADHD undiagnosed until adulthood), shame and rejection were huge hurdles to overcome in her path to embracing her kinky side and finding an accepting kinky partner to indulge with. 

Your mentoring style perfectly blends fun, realism, and honesty. Its exactly what Ive been searching for and Im so glad to have found you!

Anonymous Mentee

Mentorship On-demand

Kinky Dating Kickoff

Navigate the kinky dating world with confidence and clarity for 

  • On-Demand kinky dating guidance from Emma 
  • Lifetime access
  • Free Bonus content
  • Self-Paced with instant access to all modules

$

50.00

14-Day Money Back Guarantee

I believe if you've made it to this page, there is something you are meant to learn from this course. I also believe this course will change your dating life as you know it. 


BUT, it's important to me that you LOVE the content and tbh I'm not everyone's flavor (which is okay). So although my typical policy doesn't allow refunds on digital products, this course is an exception and I've decided you have 14 days and 2 modules to decide if this is the course for you! Just let me know if not and I'll refund you, no questions asked and no hard feelings. 

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the course format?

The content is a mix of video, text, and audio lessons. You'll be able to start the course as soon as you purchase, and all content inside will be immediately available to you. I also share with you any helpful reference graphics used in the video lessons, and transcriptions are provided for every video. 

How do I access the course?

The course is hosted on the kinkybestie.com website, so all you need is a browser with internet connection to start! You'll create an account during the checkout process, and sign in with that information to make the course visible. 

If you have any issues, email support@kinkybestie.com

How long will the course take to complete?

TECHNICALLY, it takes about 2-5 hours to complete this course and do the work alongside it (like journaling prompts, creating or auditing your online presence, etc). 

However, it will of course take longer to implement these changes in your life and to get the result you want. You can either spend time between modules for implementation, or some people will prefer to consume everything at once and refer back to the content as they're implementing. 

You have lifetime access to this course, so you can pace out the content at your preferred pace, repeat sections as you want, and take as long as you need!

Is the language inclusive of ME?

The intent when creating this course was to be inclusive of all relationship structures, while I am monogam-ish the language in this course is inclusive of monogamous and non-monogamous dynamics. 

There is also no gendering in the course, so it doesn't matter who you are or who wanting to attract! 

I am also a learning and growing human, so there may be mistakes here and there. Let me know so I can grow!

I'm already a 1:1 mentee, is this right for me?

It can be! If weve talked about the topic before, there may be some repeated information. Theres also probably alot we havent talked about yet, or it may be said in a different way that suddenly clicks things into place for you.

The format does not allow for in-the-moment feedback from me or the live accountability piece but as long as you go into it aware of this youll be able to take away something valuable!

I need extra support with these topics

Id love to help you! Schedule a 1:1 kink mentorship call with me here for live video support on kink lifestyle topics.

Mentorship On-demand

Kinky Dating Kickoff

Navigate the kinky dating world with confidence and clarity for 

  • On-Demand kinky dating guidance from Emma 
  • Lifetime access
  • Free Bonus content
  • Self-Paced with instant access to all modules

$

50.00

A note from Emma

Bestie - can I tell you a secret? I've always known my purpose on this planet is to heal, I just didn't know what I was supposed to be healing. After YEARS of dating drama, rejection and heartache I finally met my match (my amazing Dominant) in 2022. About 6 months into our relationship I was so overwhelmed with love and compassion I thought to myself I want everyone to have this. As the revelation crossed my face I sat in front of my partner, teary eyed and said "I know what I'm meant to teach."


And that's when I started Kinky Bestie, and began working 1 by 1 over private mentorship to help others create this same great accepting love in their life. But the thing is that when I was searching for my partner, I wasn't ready to openly talk about what I was going through with a personal mentor. I was consuming online courses! Whatever I could get my hands on, which at the time meant vanilla dating courses


I deserved better, and so do you. And that brings us here! The Kinky Dating Kickoff is the course I would have wanted when I was dating as a kinkster. I deeply believe that if you're reading this page there is something here you are meant to learn, and my dearest wish is that you find everything you need within yourself to learn it. 

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